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newhere
I’m pretty new to dating and have been trying a few apps. 7 got tinder and have been using it and yesterday got talking with a guy. We exchanged numbers and basically text all day.
I noticed last night before bed he unmatched me on there, although he still say goodnight last night.
I fell asleep and haven’t said anything to that message, but I’m not sure if I should mention it or just say nothing to him now? I don’t know if he’s not interested anymore or if he got rid of me coz we text so he didn’t see the point in having Ken on his list?
I’m just not sure if its a jerk move or just normal innthebsayifn world?
Ashley
Do not say anything & do not contact him at all in general
newhere
I just realized so many typos in that message. Lol. Auto correct! Hopefully it made sense.
What if he contacts me?
Jen
He just lost interest. Let it go. There are so many possibilities to pick from on the app. Men have unlimited options. Don’t bother with those who are not interested and don’t spend too much time chatting before a meet up.
Newbie
He unmatched you, so yes thats a bad sign. Many guys on tinder are not really looking for a relationship but are bored and fishing. I dont give out my phonenumber before i actually meet someone because otherwise you get bombarded with texts for a few weeks and then nothing. Texting with men i dont know is something i dont like to do. Its a waste of time
newhere
I guess I was just confused as to why he would still text me after unmatching me. Just seems odd.
lex
Maybe he just deleted the app.
Sherri
If he has your number and is messaging you, what does it matter that he matched or unmatched you on the app? Isn’t the end game to move offline rather than be online?
Lane
Because he’s into “e-tethering” (look it up).
Do not give out your number until one has set up an actual day and time to meet. Always do it in public, and if he doesn’t schedule another date within a day or two, lose his number.
Do not engage in text conversations with men you’ve never met…leave it for the DATE! There’s this thing called ‘mystery and intrigue’ which is why its best to not invest until a man is taking you out on dates.
Be THE PRIZE. The prize doesn’t compete in the race (chase after men), the prize sits on her pedestal watching her contenders (men) vie for her attention! If a man isn’t taking you out, or putting in a lot of effort to see you, then remove him from the competition asap. Only until you’ve won a man’s HEART FIRST, and then he win’s yours, do you act like a girlfriend, because you are one.
You need to stand out from the pack. This means your not one of the hundreds of girls they talk to without ever taking them out; or having sex when they tell you they ARE NOT looking for a relationship. Need to learn how to weed the “time wasters” (men who are sowing their wild oats) out quickly so you don’t become emotionally invested in men who are only looking for easy sex.
Nat
People can be so rude and so insecure. He is rude by unmatching you and not telling you about it while texting with you. You are insecure for not asking directly what’s up with unmatching.
But generally yeahh..don’t text until you meet in person.
Tallspicy
Drama much ladies?
A. Maybe he now has your contact, so h doesn’t need to keep the match
B. You are wayyyyy too invested in a total stranger.
C. You can give out your number, but warn them that you prefer phone and in person.
D. Chill o. No need tof create meaning where is none.
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