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Veronica
Ok so this guy I’ve been friends with since 8th grade year of middle school and ended up at the same high school with admitted to me during our senior year which was just last year that he’s liked me since freshman year. Unfortunately, I have really strict parents and told him I couldn’t date him back then so we just kept talking and went on one date after graduation. A few days after our date he never responded to my message and then 4 months later he hits me up and I respond and he leaves again. Now, in January 2021 just today, he facetimed me but I didn’t pick up because WTF??? I don’t know what to do should I leave him there or not? And why is he acting like this suddenly? I actually still like him.
Aahana
like it just doesn’t feel like he doesn’t like you anymore cuz he’s tryna be in contact with you just because he likes you like he would have just left if he got anyone else uk so ig he’s probably not cheating on you and if we talk about DO YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM OR STAY WITH HIM i ll just say if you really like him just be straight and tell him everything you feel for him cuz then he might change and be in contact with you daily if he likes you back
Lane
You need to learn that men are not honorable; nor are all men looking for a steady GF; nor are all men as interested as they claim to be. You *must* learn how to carefully WATCH a man’s ACTIONS!!!
Men are the “action orientated” specie whereas you know where their heads at based on WHAT THEY DO, not what they say.
ALWAYS apply this formula to men: WORDS + ACTIONS = TRUTH!
If a man say’s one thing but does another he is not being honest OR if he’s doing one thing but saying another (they contradict each other) then he is not being honest with not only himself but you. Only when BOTH *words and actions* mesh up on a consistent basis over a period of time can you know if he’s being honest (truthful) with himself and you.
For instance, when a guy says “I’ve really liked you since…” (flowery words) but “blows you off” (actions) he is yanking your chain. You dump and drop the flowery word men from your life ASAP that way you keep yourself from getting hurt, like in this case.
As a side note men his age (between 18 – 28) are going to be “playing the field” for a long time, so don’t hitch yourself to “timewasters” or “timekeepers” which are men just dating around for the primary purpose of getting lots of sex and then go “poof” (disappear) like this guy does. You really need to keep your head and wits about you when navigating the dating mine field today!
Raven
Just file this under, ‘Boys are weird.’
Next time he calls, pick up & ask him…
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