I will talk to my partner guy tonight… and be done with it

You are pretty sick kathy since you and nat (aka maria) are the same person.remember when your pic came up next to a maria post a little while back?? Please get help.

I can see both sides to this, yes I do think he’s not as into you as you are him, that much is clear. However I completely agree with Nat, life isn’t black and white, we can’t have everything our way, make demands and then strop off just because he didn’t do exactly as we wanted! I am wondering though if these differences in the advice comes from cultural differences in the way the dating world goes round. I’m in the UK, and things seem a bit softer here (for now). We don’t put up with bs (meemee for what it’s worth I WOULD walk away if I were you) but it’s not so cut and dried in every situation, but I also think that the multi dating rules haven’t really kicked In here yet.

And by the way, I do think he is very slowly opening up… the last time we met before my Cancun trip, he asked about my personal financial and offered up his… which is a sign of mutual trust in my mind…

It turn out, now I am going to laugh, that he in one breath, bought 2 apartment buildings in a city with the highest crime rate I all of US….2 apartment with total of 56 units at $2.1m….it has been a drain on him since….my eyeball almost pop out…. I was thinking at the time oh well, maybe he is not as smart as I thought…Lol

I do believe there is a lot of jealousy going on in some of these posts. People who feel good about themselves can handle other people telling about their lives.

I think its because we are starting to realize Meemee is certifiable or a troll.

Her posts lately look and sound like she is drunk.
And no idea what her last post meant about the guy buying property. That was a big bunch of gibberish. And who cares anyway, since he is investing in HIS life and not a mutual one with her.

Again, she sounds like Mike. All fluff and no substance. To Meemee its all about money and status. And the inability to connect with anyone in a meaningful way.
I feel sorry for her kids.

I just feel bad that she is giving advice on here to other women with such a warped perception of self, self esteem and what constitutes a healthy relationship.
Which is why I find myself trying to shoot down her advice. It’s scary that she is telling other women to ‘just come up with an excuse to breakup with him, it’s easy’
when SHE herself, admits it’s easier for her to just delete the guy and ghost.

You really sound drunk and off….

Meemee you are not credible. So I agree with Jen, regardless of tact.

wow, ugly souls here…..

that much anger/hatred that you would curve other people’s kids…..

Once upon a time this site had women who were experienced and helpful. With only a few exceptions, not any more. I suspect a lot of the girls who used to post learned what they needed to and are off living happy lives and are dating good men, because they listened to the advice here and applied it.

Mike and MeeMee do not listen nor do they have any insight whatsoever on themselves nor are they here to get any. They are here to get attention. OK. So ignore them. That’s what I do. Everyone learns on their own time schedule and these two are going to be at it for a while. So what?! No one here seems to have normal happy relationships other than Hannah and Jippity and God only knows why they and a few other levelheaded people like RedCurlySue and Khadijah still bother to come here. But… not my problem, man.

Chloe – I came to this website over a year ago in a total mess over men. I learned a lot here, which has helped me to get myself healed, learn better ways of selecting men, and ultimately find someone amazing to be with. So I come here out of gratitude and willingness to help others (if they want it) :-)

I agree. Jen an Jay just come on here because they enjoy putting other ppl down. It is time for the nice women to take over the site and quite putting up with the cruel women. It is not fair to let the mean ppl destroy what was once a helpful site. I wish those rude ppl had not scared some nice women like Shannon away. Please let us not put up with those two or any other runde women anymore.

Mee Mee just ignore them. Absolutely unclassy and unacceptable.

Ladies, it time to end this thread as its going off the rails.

If Meemee just wants to accept the advice of Nat, Kathy & Maria (Eric knows if they are the same or not), that is her prerogative. The best way to deal with OP’s like this, is to no longer respond to any of their posts (like Mike’s) and allow her to keep doing the same thing over and over and over until she has her own “aha” (light bulb) moment and finds it simply doesn’t work the way she’s going about it.

Like Einstein said “I haven’t failed, it just took me 10,000 ways that won’t work.” Eventually she’ll figure it out through a lot of wasted effort and repeating the same errors, and that’s perfectly OK if that’s the way she wants to do it.

Let’s end this and move onto others who really need and want the help in solving their dating/relationship problems.