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Mary.
Mary
Hi! I need some advice so please be honest with me.
There was this guy that I met at uni and he asked me for my insta because he said he liked me. Eventually we studied together a bit and had lunch and afterwards he told me he would take me out for dinner sometime.
I was actually too excited so I asked him to hang out and eventually he did. It was very nice and he seemed interested in me, he even asked me to hold his hand so we did for a pretty long time. Afterwards he asked when we’d be able to see each other again and then he said we could see via text.
But he never texted me about it, I asked him to hang out but he said he was busy with work and still had to go to the gym and that we could meet up some other time. I answered sure and it has been 4 days now and he still hasn’t initiated anything.
I don’t want to lose him cause he seems like a really nice guy, but what should I do? Im just very confused.
Maddie
You’re not losing a guy if he can’t take the initiative to follow up to schedule an early-on date. If that’s the case, he was never interested in serious dating in the first place (which is normal enough for guys in uni). That more than likely has nothing to do with you, could be lots of other reasons. But let people show you who they are: if he can’t get things off the ground with you, he’d never make a good boyfriend later on, no matter how nice he seemed after one hangout. You don’t actually know each other yet, so he made a good first impression but may actually be flakey! Try to keep your mind off him and keep your options open, since there’s nothing further for you to do. Ball is in his court.
Raven
Sorry Hun, He’s not interested…
Tallspicy
You are not losing him because until a man is your boyfriend you never has him. Next time, let him do the work ..please look up anxious attachment
Mary
Oh dear. It’s very clear he is not interested. More self love can come with solitude.
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