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Person I’m talking to online (we can’t meet due to covid) but we have facetimed. We click so far, It’s obvious that they really like me. They sent me a text that said
I have paused my (insert dating site ) account for a while. Finding it hard to keep who was who clear in my head.
I am talking to other people as well but I’m not really interested in anyone else so I’m not really engaging with them in the same way at all. I would not mix this person up with anyone. I also know that they have a friend on the same account so that has made me a bit hesitant about liking other people. I would hate to be talking to their friend as well. I really like this person.
I jumped onto the site it said deactivated maybe she just wanted to give me a heads up to why? we are both female in our 40s. By saying this I feel like she is saying I’m not that memorable? Why tell me?
Thoughts?
Maddie
I think she’s just letting you know she deactivated her profile and it has nothing to do with you. She just doesn’t like the online dating medium during covid. Did you ask her if she wants to continue getting to know each other, facetiming and chatting? Or is she trying to take a dating break altogether?
In the past, if I reached out to someone and said I was deleting my profile and we HAD NOT traded other contact information, I was letting them down easy… yes, I was sick of online dating and needed a break but no, I wasn’t that interested in them either. I was just being polite enough not to disappear totally if we’d been chatting. If I was still interested and simply wanted to delete my profile, we’d have either already taken things off the dating site and traded info already or I’d have sent a phone number, and given them a couple days to save it and reach out if they were still interested, before deleting my profile.
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Thanks Maddy.
Just to be clear she text me that. We moved off the dating site over a week ago. We had chatted on there for a week or so. We got off of the app after we had a FaceTime date.
So have been connecting multiple times a day over text. She has continued to send me photos of her day after she sent that text. I have not responded to that particular text yet.
She initiates more than me… she is planning our first in person date as soon as lockdown ends.
Her account though was a member account so she can see when people were online last where I’m on a free account so I can’t see people’s activity… but yes she might have wanted to tell me why she was deactivate so it doesn’t make le think that she did if for me.
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