guy not texting his whole trip! lost interest or busy?

He probably does not want to bother you while you are on vacation. That would be my guess. He is also busy with what he is doing. I would not be concerned at all.

Hi TT.

Women need to learn how men operate. Men are naturally “doers” where their communication is the same as there’s a purpose or reason behind it. If he can’t plan a date or spend time with you right now then he’s going to be focused on what he IS DOING and planning things where he’s currently at, such as business dealings and spending time with his family.

Stop feeling like you need to be tethered or live in a man’s pocket. He MAY reach out and see how your doing, but when people are on vacation the respectful thing to do is allow them to enjoy it without constant interruptions. Aren’t you busy in Hawaii? Try leaving the darn phone in your room—get out and explore; see, smell and touch your surroundings; try new things; and enjoy your time doing fun things rather than clinging to that silly contraption wasting your precious vacation time worrying about a man who’s on the other side of the continent who’s out doing the things he planned to do while there.

Honestly, you’re emitting that insecure needy vibe and need to stop it. Need to learn how to live life without constantly worrying about how a man feels about you. Why are you giving him so much power? Why don’t you feel secure and confident in yourself? If you keep up this way of ‘thinking’ he’s going to get that eeeewwww feeling because men LOVE THEIR FREEDOM and if he can’t feel free to do what grown men do without you getting all twisted up in knots because he hasn’t reached out just to allay your fears and insecurities, trust me, he’ll pick his freedom over you.

Calm down, let it go and just enjoy your vacation :-)

I’M fully agree with Khadija. I think you shouldn’t bother at all=)

Thanks jessy. I’m wanting to text casual and ask how trip wad. But I don’t Wana give him power of thinking I’ve been waiting . He should be calling me. I’m a great catch and he’s an idiot. Sorry but that’s my truth

Thank you .. I need to hear that kind of stuff. I feel crappy but why? And I do have so much on my plate. I have to focus on the things that are my reality. He’s been a day dream the past couple weeks

TTT – you already posted on this. And we already told you to hold off on being upset until he is back. Is it a great sign? No – but men are singular focused and work trips are always tons of work and late nights. When he has been back for 3 days, then worry.