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    Sam

    My ex and I split up about 6 months ago. He initiated it and I was heartbroken. We still spoke for months but the last couple of weeks I’ve been doing nc to try and move on. I’m talking to another guy but I don’t think my ex knows. Anyway, the other night he rang me at like 2 in the morning saying he missed me and asking how I was and stuff like that and he sounded upset. Today he text me asking how I was and I didn’t respond. Then he texted me again saying ‘okay don’t worry then’ and just now he said ‘I just thought I’d see how you were’. I haven’t replied to any of these because I feel like talking to him will undo any progress I’ve made of moving on from him. I feel really guilty and horrible for ignoring him but I’ll just go back to square one if we talk. Has anyone got any advice? Thanks.

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    Hayley

    NC is about improving yourself! Stop worrying about your ex, go on with your fabulous life. I know it is hard and you feel guilty, but try to focus just on yourself now and time will tell if he is still interested!

    Good luck! :)

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    patsytshirt

    Unless an ex get in touch asking clearly that he wants you back and explaining his reasons what changed, do not contact him! Let him miss you from afar. He is missing you but he is not doing anything to get you back is he? Missing at 2am when he is lonely and he realized that nobody wants him, so he calls you and check if you still have feelings for him just to get an ego boost! But he still doesnt want you back does he? Let him cope with the consequences of his decision. He needs to grow up. Dont feel bad or guilty, remember that he didnt care one bit about how you would feel when he dumped you. Why do you have to make things easy for him? Let him do some soul searching, if he really wants you back he will do more than texting you ‘i miss you’. Be strong, stick to no contact, break only if he take serious action and proves he changed.

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    Raven

    Let him miss you!

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