Dumped after 2 months …

You saw his intense interest as a good thing, while it was actually a red flag. We hear it here all the time if a guy is intense and moving too quickly it will probably burn out equally as quickly.
It’s possible that as quick as he was fascinated by you, he became fasinated by the new girl.
Do yourself a favour and start working on getting over him.

After our first date it was like we were a couple.
Texting all day every day ..met two days later then 2 days later again.
He would ring me every day sometimes 3 times a day.
Text/snapchat every day.
He said he could tell I was a girl to keep hold of and I’m a keeper.
After 2 dates he was suggesting meeting his mum.
He told his family about me and his friends.
He spoke about us becoming serious..when we were together he was holding my hand and kissing me,he actually seemed in awe of me (cheesy but the way he looked at me etc)
I didn’t see it coming he just went cold then it was over.
How do you go from that to gone and over?

Stupidly I thought I had got to know him pretty well …just goes to show I never knew him at all

I’m sorry, but this was never real. It was just superficial infatuation on his part-he’s what we call a “future faker”. Speaks of a future and sucks you in, but it’s all BS.

As someone else said, when they come on real strong without even knowing you and make lots of promises, it’s a huge red flag something isn’t right.

That is why we need to step back, slow a guy way down, and observe if he is consistent and reliable over time (many months, at least).

I know it hurts and it sucks, but this is a very valuable lesson of what to look out for in the future.

Never believe the words of a man you barely know. Only when his actions match his words over a prolonged period of time, do you even begin to take him seriously.

This guy was full of crap. Again, sorry.

Thank you. Your advise is well taken and appreciated. I told him he could kiss my ass. I know my worth, and you are correct and in the future I will really pay more
Attention. A Sicilian never goes back and we are never forgotten.

I’m a man, the term for this is Love Bombing. A guy showers you with attention, romantic gestures, talk of a future together real fast. It’s a tactic to get someone to let down her guard. Then they move on to the next woman. I found it works on women who are vulnerable, young or getting out of a bad relationship. I use to do this when I was younger too. Women who are on guard for it don’t let it overwhelme them.

Wow I had the same story with a guy a couple of months ago..I met him online and talked for like two weeks both texting and calling.
The biggest red flag I missed was that he started to ask me intimate stuffs early one. On our first date he bought me flowers and held my hand ,the next day went to a second date and we kissed and after one week he already told me “I love you”. I tried to explain that it can’t be love but he kept saying that he knows better his feelings.
We talked daily a lot and spent a lot of time together. After two months we had sex and then he basically changed so he was too busy to call or to see each other . When I confronted his actions he told me that I was to serious for him and that he needs someone to be wilder. After our break up he already started another relationship.