Does he still love me or hate me?


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    Tonya

    My ex boyfriend and i broke up 3 months ago. It was a very nasty ending and we haven’t spoken since. I learned today that in a conversation with a mutual friend that he said something bad about me. In the past week he has meant somebody new so I don’t understand why he would say anything bad about me.

    I have let go of what happened and moved on. If he was mentioned I would not say anything bad…I would probably not say anything at all.

    So why did he say it? Still has hatred me towards are break up or still loves me and sad something bad because he hasn’t healed yet??

    #117054 Reply

    Bedazzle

    Is it ended nasty clearly something bad happened. I wouldn’t put too much stock in what he says because you’re no longer together. It is his experience and he will share with the people in his life. People do that.

    #117427 Reply

    Tonya

    Yes, it did end nasty but because of his actions not mine. His experience as he is portraying it isn’t true. He is making me out to be bad which is not the case.

    #117431 Reply

    Bedazzle

    Well there is nothing you can do about that. Often times people will project their issues they don’t want to deal with onto another person. At this point you can let it upset you are not, that is the only thing you can control. You cannot control what he says or does.

    #117434 Reply

    Gibson

    “Often times people will project their issues they don’t want to deal with onto another person”

    A little bit like my ex (who couldn’t handle his finances alone so got me to do it for him) implying to everyone that I was ripping him off money wise when he walked out on me.

    (Never thought of that as projecting, thanks, Bedazzle, it makes better sense now in a weird way!)

    Yep! Nothing you CAN do except know in your heart that you are a GOOD person, the better person even.

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