yoga regularly, they change their entire routine so there is less time for everything except him.to keep your life balanced, whether you’re in a relationship or not. A lot of women let the areas of their lives that used to be important fall by the wayside as soon as they get a boyfriend. They quit going to book club, they don’t meet up with friends as often, they stop doing
When you no longer have these other things filling you, you will inevitably turn to your man and the relationship to fill in the empty space. And when it doesn’t (and it won’t), you’ll resent him for not giving you what you need, and he’ll resent you for making those kinds of demands. Suffice to say this kind of situation never turns out well.
Remember, his aversion to being “locked down” has nothing to do with you. When you can understand where he’s coming from, you will save yourself from a world of endless frustration, pain, and confusion. Just be the best version of yourself. When you achieve this, you will inspire him to be his best self and the benefits of a relationship with you will completely outweigh a life of “freedom.”
If you can understand and accept that men are naturally averse to being “locked down” (and that it has nothing to do with you), you will be able to relate to him from a place of compassion and understanding, not frustration and anger.
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